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Home: a nice place to visit but i'm glad i don't live there anymore.
11/25/2006 7:04 pm Last Read: |
hi guys, my name is pete, i'm 37 years old, and have been living alone for almost 2 years now. i started on OP hoping to find someone (not much luck so far) and i found myself reading these blogs which i think are terrific. so i figured what the hell, i'll give it a try. i haven't really been dating so if you're looking for hot sex stories this blog is not for you. it's just a place for me to share my mundane thoughts on this and that. maybe a sex fantasy here and there thrown in for good measure. so i'd like to ask you guys if you have ever gone through this particular phenomenon: you go home to your parents for the holidays or a visit and you are treated not like a grown adult person but like a child. you get criticized for what you are wearing, the length of your hair, the amount of stubble on your chin etc. etc. you get sucked into the same old arguments from literally decades ago. and i just love when they ask when are you going to find the right woman and settle down and give us grandchildren. at that point i literally have to bite my tongue. they must know in their hearts that i'm gay and that little dream is never gonna happen. there's a story that happened when i was 18 or 19 that gave them a big clue as to my orientation but i'll save that story for another time. don't get me wrong, i love my parents to death but i can only take them in small doses. does that make me a bad son or a bad person in general??what do you guys think? i would appreciate the feedback. well, until next time.... | ||
11/25/2006 9:40 pm |
It took ages for my parents to stop doing that to me. Like "If you don't get married soon then you'll be too old and no woman will want you". They could never work out why that didn't scare me. I occasionally had girlfriends and was immediately quizzed as to when we were going to get married. It's just part of life. I don't think I was bad because of that. Well, most of my sex partners said I was pretty good 
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11/26/2006 2:15 pm |
After a time you only pop back because you`re doing you own thing.
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12/12/2006 12:02 am |
parents are well wishers of their progeny, but they don't know where to stop in treating them as children even when they seemd grown up to tie thier shoe laces themeselves! I got off my parents clutches pretty fast as I was boarder and never stayed with them as far as possible!
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