Complicated ?

Is life complicated or am i just paranoid, I am a 50 year old married TV/CD,whatever you want to call me because when I dress, I dress fully and not just in knickers and bra and when I am dressed and made up I feel at ease and relaxed. I dress as often as possible with the full support of my wife, but because we have young children at home it is not as often as I would like. I go to the London clubs as and when I can and sometimes my wife joins me as well, but first I have to take out a bank loan to visit because they take the mickey, with not only their entrance prices but also with their drinks prices as well. All I want to do is go out dressed and have a good time, but of course because it is more or less a closed community, anywhere we go tends to extort as much as it can from us girls, if I meet someone all the better because the night has not been a complete waste.
Due to other circumstances which I explain to anybody I meet I cannot always be available all the time due to work and family commitments all I ask is for some understanding. I will always give 100% of me to the right person, my wife and I are both bisexually active and we swing as a couple anyway, recreational sex has never been a problem for either of us, as we both enjoy it.
The complication is trying to get people to understand that we do have a life that tends to be erratic, all i ask is for people to be patient and understanding and if they are then they will get their just rewards many times over.