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HEs singing again
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Feb 12, 2012 10:27 pm
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Well this morning I could hear some singing downstairs in the kitchen so I got up and went down, and its LW makeing coffee with one arm but hes trying to use the other one also, which Im amazed at he trying to use it which is great and hes singing have a merry little christmas make all your dreams come true, and the way hes singing the song sounds like james taylor and it sounds really great, then he sees me and sings the song to me, he grabs ahold of me and we dance around in the kitchen I really like him like this, and then he said morning sis, aint it great, Im going to have two baby boys very shortly, I said I know, I said you have broke the mold here, everyone has had girls and you are haveing two boys and they are so healthy and growing so fast, the gals told the Doc they both want C sections when its time, cause the Doc said, those boys shoulders are going to be rather large so they dont want to be all streached out so C sections is what they want, so they both signed papers for that to be done, I asked so whats going on today, he said, I was thinking about takeing my grain shovel and sleding down the hill, I just stood there and looked at him, you have got to be kidding and he looked at me and said YES IAM and he laughs and walks away from me giggleing, oh he had me going and its only 6:00am in the morning, he sat down and was trying to put on his lacers and then he sat there looking at the laces he was trying to move his arm down andhe was going to try to lace up his boots, I stood there and was watching him from the kitchen, he is trying so hard to do it himself......................................
I saw his face do a painful as he moved his arm, so I went over there and said here let me help you, he looked up at me and I saw a couple of tears in his eyes, Oh that did it, I watched him do his best to tye his own boots and moveing that shoulder hurt him really bad, he said here let me try it, I would just cringe as I heard him breath I could tell it really hurt to do what he was doing, I kneeled down right in front of him and I wanted to help, and when he got them all laced up he couldnt tye the bow so I did that for him, then he went to wipe his eyes with his arm and he went after the other boot and I watched him lace that one up and I tyed that one also, he sat back and the tears just flowed down his face, I said Im so proud of you, and I kissed the tears away off his face then hugged him to me, I know he trys so hard to move that arm and I know it has got to hurt, even when the girls help him in the exercise room I have seen the tears roll down his face as hes in there moveing that arm, I have never had that kind of surgry on my body as of yet and seeing what hes going through I dont know if I ever want to, its a pain I cant even fanthom and dont want to, but I can help him with what I can, I saw him bump into the corner of the wall the otherday and I felt every inch of my own skin crawl when i heard that moan come out of him, he went down on his knees and he was in tears, and the girls were right there holding onto him, trying to make him feel better, but that pain just doesnt go away...................................
Then the coffee was ready so I went and got the cups for us, I said you sit Ill get them, so I put a scoop of what we have been useing for our guys for the first cup I showed the girls what he use once aday so they do that when I dont get his first cup, well I got our coffee and brought it to him and the gals came down and got their coffee and juices and came over and they saw him with his lacers on, did you do that, he said I laced them and sis tyed them for me, I said hes doing so much better, but we have to get that arm moveing better, he is so stoved up, they said the Doc wants to see him today and give him a shot or two to help releive some of that pain so he can move his shoulder better, do you need a ride, he said Randy said he would take me when he got up, and sure enough here he comes down the stairs, morning everyone, you ready brother, The girls helped him up and they got him a go cup after he drank his first cup, they gave him kisses and hugs and I love yous, and they walked him out to the truck and got him in belted his belt for him and then closed the door, randy gave me my morning kiss and hug and said we will be back in a few hours I said we will be here, or over at the cabin, love you he said me to and out he goes, and down the driveway they go...................................
They told me that hes going to get a couple of shots in his shoulder to help so he can move his arm better, I said Hydro cortanozons they said yes that sounds about right they showed me the paper the doc sent ot LW and thats what it is, he figured that putting two maybe three in the area of where he had the surgry would help relax those musles so he can get better so he can move that arm better, when they was in there they also tightened up the tendon and they might have tightened it to much, thats why he cant move that arm that much right now, and it hurts him so bad when he does, so those shots should help relax that area for him, and we hope it works cause he trys so hard to move that arm and shoulder and hes almost always in so much pain when he does, Bonnie said he doesnt sleep anymore unless he takes a demeroil and he doesnt like that, we rub on his most of the night trying to get him to relax but that shoulder is so tight, and if we rub to hard he crys to himself, trying to hide it from us, but we know, she said we curl up to him and hold onto him, Bonnie said I have never thought that a shoulder could ever hurt as much as his does, hes a left side sleeper and he cant lay on that side at all................................................
Sherrie said we hope that shot helps him we are so worried about him, when he hugs the both of us he trys to lift that left arm and we see it on his face, that there is alot of pain when he trys, so we hold him to us, and we know, thast not what he wants, I said of course not hes the man and he wants to hold his ladys in both of his arms, I said you two mean so much to him, and when he cant do what he wants to do it just burns him up inside, and they understand that, I said well lets go over to the cabin and clan up som eof the floors before they get back so the kids came with us after we fed them they gals had their fruit like everymorning, I said he is so happy that hes going to have two boys, Bonnie said thank God we arent haveing twins, we would be huge not that we aint going to be carrying just one I said do you know how big he was when he was born, they said no how big, I went and got his birth cert, and showed them, both of their eyes got really big, No Way, I said its all here, and it says, 17.5 pounds 28 inches long and his shoulders 24CM thats 12 inches wide, Bonnie clamp her legs together thats why we are haveing a C section, his poor mother, and he was born in a barn delivered by his grandfather and the Vet. she broke water at 7:30am and had him at 7:42am, both of the girls just shook sitting there.....................................
Then WIll came down morning he said, whatcha got there, he looked over, of thats LWs birth Cert, man he was huge, when he was born, and mom said he was 6 weeks early can you imagine how big he could have been if he was full term, the Doc sadi could have been well over 25 pounds, Bonnie and sherrie went to fanning themselves they went to sweating when Will said that, then he looked at them and said just like your babies they are growing big already, its the Scottish in our Blood, our great grandfather 7 tomes over was 7ft9inch 512 pounds, he was huge we can date our family back to 715AD and we are full bloods moms family was Low landers and fathers family was Highlanders, our ancestors were the assines for the King of Scottland, I guess they was bad asses is what the history books say, they did and pillage the village, they didnt care who you was, they killed everyone and they brought back heads, thats how they got paid in Gold, by bringing back the Kings Enemys heads in a bag, that showed they were no longer a threat to him................................
So thats the Blood that is flowing through your children, then the Girls said we are also Scottish, Wills eye brows came up, does LW know that, they said yes he does, well thats great hes keeping the blood lines going, not that it will end with just us, the last family reunion we went to there was over 1700 of the family there and only half of them showed up, Bonnie said thats alot of people or family members and thats just one family, Will said thats our side, moms is half that but thats still alot of people, we went over and went to cleaning the floors, around non they showed back at the ranch and they got out, LW didnt have the sling on his arm anymore and the girls went running out to him for the first time in weeks he raised up both of his arms and he got to hold both of them against him, I could hear baby your holding the both of us, randy walked up anit that a pretty sight, I asked how is he bringing up that arm, well after the Doc gave him those five shots, I said Five, yes Five, he raised up his arm the Doc did and it Snapped, both of our eyes went wide open, The Doc said that should do it, and then LW could move his arm with out any pain at all, the Doc said they had tightned the tendon to tight, and by shooting it up first it relaxed that and when he raised up the shoulder its like a finger joint when it snapped it took the tention off the tendon, so now he can move his shoulder with out any pain, and now we can do his exercises that hes spose to be doing, but right now he is makeing it up to his babies on holding them against him and they are loveing it as much as they love him, randy held me from the back and we watched the three of them as randy had his chin on top of my head, he said that is so nice to see now......................................
So thats all you two did, he said yep, hes not much of a talker when he is laying back relaxed he closed his eyes as soon as we left the parking lot, I just let him rest, its probally the first time hes had a great rest since that happened to him, he just melted right there on the front seat and he closed his eyes had a smile on his face and out he went, I said a smile, yes a smile so he was finally out of pain, I woke him up just before we passed the big circle so he could gain his sences before we got here, he looked at me and smiled, I asked how do you feel he said best nap hes had in weeks, I said Im so glad for that now maybe he can sleep tonite, which will make them girls happy, they work so hard on him trying to get him to sleep, randy said I dont think thats going to be a problem tonite, they gals started walking him to the lodge and he had a arm each up on their shoulders and inside they went, we followed with the kids in towe, Will came out where is everyone going, back to the lodge so he said OK and he followed with his family back to the lodge, when we got in there, we looked around and they were no where in sight, so I went up the stairs and by their room, he was laying on hi sback with each of them on his sides and they were all asleep, and the girls saw me walk by checking up on them, and they both smiled at me..........................................
I went back down, hes laying down sleeping again, randy said, Im not suprised he hasnt slept in what almost three weeks so it finally caught up with him and since his shoulder doesnt hurt hes catching up, I said, those two are so happy that he is sleeping they are laying on each side of him with their heads on his chest they smiled at me as I walked by, so those two are happy also cause hes sleeping, I asked what about dinner, randy said if he wakes up we will feed him if not let him sleep, he might wake up later on tonite so we will put a note on the countier for them of where the oplates are with food on them for them, but it will be something lite for them, like tuna fish sandwiches or something like that, Megan came in and helped me make dinner, she said sure is different haveing them all sleeping this early, she said must of done something right on his shoulder I explained what the Doc did to him she said wow thats great and Randy said he slept all the way out here, first time in weeks, she said they arent going to get up hes out for the night hes got them to sleep with and hes going to catch up we will be lucky if we seem him tomorrow. so we all ate a lite dinner watched soem TV got the girls their baths and then off to bed we all went, we looked in and all three were under the covers sleeping away, LW had them both in his arms and he was smileing as he slept, so off to bed we go, and as for the girls they are each haveing JUST ONE BOY EACH no Twins, the way they were getting so big quickly we thought they might have twins but No its just those boys are going to be rather big just like their daddy is, those girls arent small either they are at 5ft10 easily and hes 6ft6 he was 6ft10 before he jumped out of planes in the army so those two boys could be Big also.........................................
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