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Mr. Perfect's Opening Line!
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Oct 21, 2008 6:20 pm
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You sit down at your computer. You get the OP mail section to open after you clicked on it, had dinner, watched 3 movies, and checked the mail ... and it finally opens! You have mail!
You look at the one new piece of mail, don't recognize the sign name, but the picture looks pretty good. Excited. You decided to check the profile before reading it ... and things are looking better and better. Your a 92% match ... pretty close!
Now, I know we differ in what we are looking for, but I think each of us has read an opening line that instantly killed that erection that was growing with anticipation.
When I get those that begin with a line such as, "I'm playing with my big hot cock! What do you want to do with it?" ... well, let's just say that I don't even respond because, "Not a damned thing" might be considered rude ... LOL
What's the worst ... or best ... opening line you've gotten in a first e-mail from someone?
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Mr. Perfect ... 1/2 a person???
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Oct 21, 2008 5:59 am
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Yesterday as I was thinking about terms that bother me some, one came to mind that has nothing to do with being gay or straight.
You meet a new couple, and the one you meet first, points to his significant other and introduces him/her. "This is my better half." or "This is my other half."
Quite a compliment!
However, does it mean that we are only half a person unless we have a lover? "Hi, I used to be 50% human, but when Fred/Freda brought his/her 50%ness into my life we became a whole person."
When the guy was half a person, was he half horizontally or vertically? Internally or externally?
When I think of men I have loved and ones I hope to meet, I never picture someone who needs me to be 50% of him! I prefer the concept of a 100% man who brings all of himself into the relationship as I bring all of myself ... a pair of men, not two halves making one whole.
Yes, I know it it intended as a tremendous compliment ... LOL But in reality, I'd hate to think that a man in my life could only move from having achieved 50% to 100% of his potential with me in his life.
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Mr. Perfect ...LOL
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Oct 20, 2008 6:26 pm
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Have you had a first date with a guy, and you heard your heart strings playing the wedding march until he ...
coughed without covering his mouth, sneezed in your direction, picked his nose, lit up a cigarette, started interrupting you while you were talking, farted loudly in public, talked with food in his mouth, popped his gum or blew bubbles, other?
From that listing, which would immediately turn of the wedding march and probably result in not dating him again although you might want him as a friend?
I will say that once a guy and I were eating at a table with others at a nice restaurant. He had to sneeze. Did he sneeze in the napkin? Did he excuse himself from the table? Did he turn so that he was not facing the table? The answers are all NO. He turned to his left, sneezed on my face and into my food. I got up and walked out as I could feel his snot running down my hair! Did I see him again ..... duh ... NO! Hey! I can hear you laughing!!!!!
Is there some "habit" of a guy that would cause you to "just say no?"
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Terms Used IN the "Community"
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Oct 20, 2008 6:14 am
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This morning I thought of a term used in the gay community that bothers me ... actually two.
One - "girlfriend" - I'm not sure why I find that one so bothersome, but the last time anyone said it to me, my response was, "I'm not a girl, and I'm not your friend." It helped that the person who said it to me was someone I'd just met at a gay restaurant where several of us were having brunch. I guess it bothers me because of the effiminate nature of the wording which I associate with the word sissy. "Girlfriend" sounds so junior high. Whether or not it is the intent of such use, it ... in a way ... adds to the incorrect assumption on the part of the heterosexual community that all gay men just really want to be women.
Two - "fag hag" - That one has always bothered me. Yes, fag is taking ownership of the insulting term. It still irks me though. Hag is not exactly a complimentary term. It has no positive definition. It is a point blank, direct insult. Is it meant to communicate that some woman who has befriended gay men must be a hag in the heterosexual world? Why use such an ugly term for someone accepting of gays? Oh, it is just cute because of the rhyme? Still, it is very insulting. I cannot get a visual of a gay guy looking at a supportive female friend and saying to her face, "Hey, hag, what's up?"
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You Just Called Me What???
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Oct 19, 2008 7:51 am
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There's that old saying, "Sticks and stones can break my bones, but words can never hurt me." As an adult, I can agree with that statement. As a child and then as a teenager and then as a young adult dealing with the challenge of self-acceptance and making decisions, I cannot say that I agree that it is always true. Sticks and stones create physical hurt. Calling people names is totally emotional hurt.
Listed below are some terms. These terms have been used throughout the years to be insulting and hurtful. There are some that hurt me as a kid. There are some that hurt me as a teen. There are others that hurt me as a young adult. Whether or not I was called those names personally is only somewhat relevant. That I heard the terms used for people like me was harmful to my self-image and my self-acceptance.
Fag, Sissy, Homo, Queer, Queen, Fudgepacker, Nelly, Freak, Pussy, Gay, Homosexual, Pretty boy - I'm sure that I've left out some others.
It is hard for me to rank them in terms of "most hurtful," and I suppose that determination for each of us will depend on our own experiences. The ones that I believe have been most hurtful to me have been sissy, fag, and queer.
Relive for just one moment that point in your life when you knew beyond a shadow of a doubt about your desires ... and some words. What were the words/names called and their impact/if any on your self-perception, etc.
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Infidelity
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Oct 18, 2008 5:38 pm
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You've had a hard day at work. You are tired, out of sorts, and generally just ready for some dinner. You open the door to your home, and what you see is your boyfriend/lover/longterm date guy naked on the sofa jacking off to a guy with whom he is camming. You have both sworn to a monogamous relationship.
You and your significant other are about to make love. This will be the 193rd time. You find your mind wandering to a hot guy you saw doing some landscaping in your neighbor's yard. You've seen him before shirtless and adjusting his bulge in his faded, soft 501's. Your significant other embraces you, and you close your eyes and kiss him with renewed passion ... as in your mind you are seducing the landscaper. You have both sworn to a monogamous relationship.
What is infidelity? Is it only infidelity if it is "skin to skin?"
.... just curious about others' thoughts ...
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Bustin Nuts Bareback!
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Oct 16, 2008 10:08 pm
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When I was a small child, I had a horse, Tony! So, I have always had a fondness for horses. When my father left us, etc. and we suddenly were on welfare, Tony had to be sold. Later, as a teen, one of my uncles bought some horses for my grandparents' farm, and I got to ride again. Later when I was working for that summer camp, I got to ride again ... had to learn how to ride English style though. I also got the experience of riding a horse bareback wearing a loincloth. I did it only ONCE!
We watch movies with American Indians riding bareback dressed in a loincloth. They ride at great speed over all kinds of surfaces .. and I've got to tell you that I have NO clue how their nuts survived such!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I'm part Cherokee and Choctaw ... so, I know for a fact that the nuts are NO different and the scrotum is just the same as any other guy any other where.
I want to know how in the world they did it ... were their loin cloths pulled so tight that their nuts were smashed against their bodies so they would not land on them over and over ... and want to scream??? LOL
Did they invent the expression, "Bust a nut?"
If you've ever shot a long bow as they used rather than a recurve bow or a crossbow, you also know that there is a GREAT deal to be said for strength ... and accuracy ... while riding a horse with your nuts "at risk!"
I have a great deal of respect for their talents and their heritage .... but .... Do you think that just maybe they considered having big balls/low hangers a bad thing????
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