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The thrill of the chase......
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Jun 16, 2006 8:14 am
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Maybe I'm weird or something but I get almost as much of a thrill out of 'chasing' my next lover down as I do actually having sex with him.
Go figure huh?
There IS a certain aspect of the 'chase' that's appealing, thrilling, exciting and downright sexy all unto itself.
I've said many many times that one of the most erotic things for me is that moment when I'm with a new lover and I slowly unzip his pants, reach in, find his glorious cock and pull it out.
I got to thinking about this earlier today and came to the conclusion that this 'moment' is indeed akin to a lion, who after stalking his prey, maneuvering into position, launching and chasing down the poor unsuspecting creature, pounces on his back and applies the coup de grace.
The same holds true when finding a new lover.
I'm sure we've all been through this here on OP and other sites. (And please, don't take this in any kind of negative way.. That's NOT how I'm looking at it or meaning this. I'm just being kind of metaphorical here 
We start by getting someone's attention either by our profile, winks or emails.
Once contact has been made, we maneuver ourselves into position by sharing our wants, needs and desires with the other individual. They typically do the same.
We 'get to know' each other a bit... In reality, we BOTH know what we're looking for but the 'dance' is kind of fun isn't it? We parry and thrust, looking for openings, feeling each other out, trying to decide if this is the right guy and if he's being honest and open.
We get to some details... Are you a top or bottom, can you host, what do you like or what are you into.. When and where are ALWAYS the biggest issues.
Once past this stage, we make a date and finally meet. Now we come back to the original metaphor I put forth of the lion and his prey..
Unzipping my new lovers pants, reaching in and pulling out his luscious cock is the coup de grace for me. That act taken just by itself is sensual enough but add in the entire lead up and the whole process can be so overwhelmingly sexy as to be almost better than the sex itself..
Now, don't get me wrong, I do love being with my regular partners. There's something to be said about familiarity and experience. Knowing what each other likes/dislikes etc. Being able to further the experience with someone or 'taking it to the next level'..
But!
The thrill of the chase REALLY turns me on. I think more so than anything else.
I AM addicted to it for sure. The newness, the unknown, the surprise are all such powerful aphrodisiacs. They drive me wild.
Anybody else out here feel the same way?
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