Do you know, guys, that 'one-nighter' was really exciting but it kinda leaves you 'cold'...
Well here is a guy that still has a lot to bring to the table to consider something of more lasting value... it does not have to be walking hand-in-hand into the sunset forever, but it would be nice to have at least an excellent friendship with 'benefits'.
I have a very wide range of interests that include the arts, things metaphysical, ideas, good food, comfortable living, but designer stuff is not the ultimate.
I am an aspiring writer, good communicator, experienced in the art of human relationships, appreciate good humor and give it back (sometimes start it too), have a high IQ, and am a good listener.
Two mystics seem to sum up my 'philosophy', Rabbi Nachman of Breslov when he says "Never ask 'the way' from someone who knows, as you will never be able to be 'lost'" and Hafiz when he says "In the end all your desires will be distilled into just two votes... to love(being un-possessive) more and to be happy."
My Ideal Person:
I am not seeking the 'ultimate' (although if he should come along...).
The more of sharing things listed above is moving in the right direction, but lacks one important thing... differences too. It is what keeps relationships honest and productive and offers a modicum of hope.
I have learned that men that have an intellect, good sense of humor, are in touch with and expressive of their feelings, able to speak in complete sentences & sometimes even in paragraphs, positive and open to the world, self-sufficient materially and emotionally and good kissers and I get along real well..
Oh yeah, and if some of these skills are rusty, a desire to exercise them as time goes by works well also... it's wonderful when two souls touch... is that asking for the ultimate? Is that wrong? There are NO rules in this.
If all you want is a role in the sack, that's okay for you, but I have had too much of that... but a desire to explore and share without a desired, pre-determined outcome makes for excellent potential...♠
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