I was married for many years. I finally admitted who and what I am, and it feels GREAT! Now I need to find that magic and mystical "HIM" ... Is he gorgeous? Is he a stud? Is he God's gift to mankind? Is he sexy as hell? Yes he is, or at least to me he will be. To others he may be too tall/short, too fat/skinny, too bald/hairy, too young/old or what ever.
In other words, looks are not the thing that makes a man sexy, to me. It is his mind and his personality. Who knows what this mystical mystery man will "look" like.
My Ideal Person:
I am looking for a man who is a man. Kinky is fine, but be a man. You can even like to wear women's clothing (as I sometimes do), and be a man.
One night stands are not what I am looking for, but sometimes, they CAN lead to something more substantial.
I want a man that does not think being gay means having sex all the time. Don't get me wrong, I LOVE sex, but I don't need it every waking moment. There are times, when just cuddling, fondling and kissing, are enough. Just being together, sharing the days events, quiet reading, or just being in the same room together are many times VERY emotionally satisfying.
Someone who can carry on an intelligent conversation and is financially secure. I am not looking to support him. I am looking for a secure, and stable man.
There must be others out there that feel as I do. Where are you? This bottom is looking for you!
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