First of all I would like to say that I'm not impressed by the size of ones Dick. The reason why I am on this site, is I am a gay man that is looking for a man who is willing to or should I say, wants to spend his life along with me together. I am confident in what I do and say. I am a understanding and forgiving. I don't hold grudges nor pass judgment on others. I'm the type of man that is willing to help you and ask nothing in return. I enjoy being outside, walking in the woods with my dog Max or a group of friends. Id rather play in my gardens and my house, than go to the mall. I've always been a hard worker. To me, putting in a 8-10 hour day is the norm. I've owned several houses; have dun the majority of the repair and renovations myself. Enjoy learning how to be com more self-sufficient. I grew up in Stockbridge Massachusetts, a small town in New England. I take great pride that I have retained my small town values; don't get the opinion I am uneducated or don't appreciate the finer things in life. I spend summers at Tangle wood,(the home of the Boston Pops.) Watch plays at the Berkshire Theater Festival, and I can not get enough of museums. I have worked for some of the finest restaurants in the US, this has given me a deep appreciation for fine cuisine or should I say an addiction. I believe that we all should be held accountable for our actions, and treat people in our lives as if they were guests, in our home. I am not of the type nor is my style to have dinner or cocktail with someone then go home, for a quick blow job or fuck. I do not meet in parking lots or rest areas for a cheap thrill. In no means am I implying that I'm a prude nor am I putting anyone down who wishes to partake in this lifestyle. It's that this is something that does not interest me. I have worked in Miami, South Beach and Sarasota Florida. Have been involved in the bar scenes as a bartender, during which time I had seen the good side and the bad side of the gay lifestyle. During that time I meant a lot of great people many unfortunately are not here today. It was a good learning experience for me, in which has helped me to become the man that I am today. I have not shared my bed for quite some time now with an another man. Due to the fact, as I have gotten older, I have become of the mine sent,(It is quality not quantity.) I have a deep sense of self and love, to share with you. I am a huge believer in romance; I believe that romance is a necessity in life, relationship and lovemaking. Love only gets better with time. One of the pleasures in relationships is finding out, and knowing what makes each other happy. While I'm on this path of life, I would like to be sharing all its experience with someone. I believe this path, that I'm on, like a path in the woods, just keeps getting better, as I climb each Mt.
Like when you go for a walk in the woods its best walking with someone, so that you both can decide on witch path to take. I have overcome a lot of life's obstacles which has made me stronger on so many different levels. One of my biggest and hardest obstacles that I'm working on now is my Dyslexia. I graduated high school with a reading level of a third to fourth grader and struggled with it for years. I do not see my Dyslexia as a disability but as a gift. I have owned eight houses managed and designed several restaurants. Owned and ran my own business, general manager of a 125 room hotel. I am currently attending Landmark College in Putney Vermont. (Landmark College is a college that specializes in people that have attention deficit disorder and Dyslexia.) My reading level currently is at the seventh grade level.
I am amazed that the similarities between people with learning disabilities and the gay community. In that when I'm with my LD brothers and sisters we do not make fun of or pass judgment on each other, for we all know what it's like to be made fun of and ridiculed by those who are ignorant or do not have any form of disability. In time I will have mastered reading and spelling until then is an ongoing struggle for me. I know that I can and will overcome this mountain and I will reap the rewards.
so as you read this please take in consideration that I have dyslexia.
My Ideal Person:
I guess this is the part that we send to Santa Claus. Well here it goes-- if you're a man between the ages of 29 and 50 dark brown hair or black hair bald or balding. Height not a big thing but must be athletically built or have the potential and designer to become. You must have the good work ethic and unafraid of breaking and nail are getting your hands dirty. If you have a strong will and sense of self. You must see the glass as half-full and can appreciate the flaws in others. Enjoy hiking, camping, tag sales, theater, museums, dining out, good home cooking, know your way around Home Depot. Either knows carpentry, plumbing or is willing to learn. Enjoy being at home on a Friday and Saturday night just watching movies or the news. Are you a man who loves a good back-rub, but you must be able to give one as well. Enjoy just lying in bed and talking. Are you a man who realizes or appreciates the joy and excitement of foreplay? Im looking the man who is upbeat, positive and who is not afraid to show his emotions and flaws. Are you the type of man who would rather fix the problem,than talk about how much it is a problem? A man who loves being a man not a female. You must have at least one pair of work boots, no not the ones you bought to look butch in.
Body hair, tattoos and some light body piercing are a plus but not required, well the body hair might be. If you have been married and have children you move to the top of list. If you have never been with a woman and have been to some form of counseling you also move to the top of the list. You must have the desire to continually improve your life and people around you. Be supportive and understanding without being controlling. You cannot have diction to drugs and alcohol that you haven't addressed. Most of all, if you cannot live or go on vacation without "hair and faced products do not attempt a relationship with me other than friendship. I'm looking for the man next door or down the street type. I guess if you are a straight man who can live with and love a man. I hated it when we, (as gay men) referrer to each other as straight acting or looking. We are gay men. Men that are gay, well some of us are, I know a lot of men that are repressed .LOL. You must have a good sense of humor, some what on the dark side, Witty and can turn a good pun. This list can go on and on. Race is not an issue. Brazilians are a plus for some day I wish to live in Brazil. If you have a learning disability putsch her name to the top of list, or if you have a person in your family with a learning disability.As you can see I have put some thought into this or you can fuck this list and Email me and we can go from there.
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