A gay man living in the north woods of Minnesota lookingfor sexual encounters.Prefer men my age or older(like white-haired gentlemen).Sexually versatile but appreciate WELL endowed men-I have a very deep throat. I appreciate the fine arts, a fine cook-& I am one too, reading, outdoorsman activities, travel, exercise, riding motorcycle & my new hobby of scuba diving. I don't care for posers, dishonesty, psychological game players, & persons that are unkind, uncaring, insensitive or impolite. Most "attitudes" are OK-having a few myself-as long as they're not malicious in origin. Persons that are intolerant & unaccepting are pretty low on thr list. I grew up on the streets of inner-city Chicago. We were poor & my home life was very fucked-up &abusive. I believe the only thing that stopped me from turning out like the majority of my family members was my gayness. I thank the Creator for making me"two spirited". This is a very basic description of my public persona-my egoistic self. I'm on a constant journey seeking to free myself from ego & focus on Being.I too search for Presence(God,Creator,Higher Power) etc.to allow the viewing of all people in the same light. I seek Human(form)Being(the formless)in all persons I encounter. This may allow me to discard the roles I've asssigned to myself & ignore roles others put upon me. I don't know who I am-just that I Am. Enlightenment is a difficult goal to achieve but I attend to it for I believe no endeavour is nobler. For those members in the US-If I wink at you don't be concerned about the distance. When it warms up enough to hit the road on my bike I'm riding! I ride 40'000-50,000 miles a year.IF you're not opposed to an out of town biker calling on you give a holler.
My Ideal Person:
Like minded people are easy to know, so I appreciate persons who are very different than myself also-makes for good conversation & debates. Sexually, I'm difficult to describe. After stating I'm passionate & sensual the door is wide open.I don't have a particular type;with one exception-age. I find I'm most comfortable with men 40-45 & up. The immaturity, hubris, & hedonism of the very young is usually more than I can handle. I'm still willing to entertain the exceptional exceptions to the rule.
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