Moved back from 18 years in Las Vegas due to MS and loss of partner who could not handle it. He wanted to play the field and I needed more serious relationship (including sex). I moved back to VT and he did his thing. Over it now and really looking for the right soulmate for LTR; someone looking for more than a one night hookup.
I'm totally out with family, but have few friends due to small town as well as people who have little thought for those with disabilities. I used to hike the mountains of this area (S. VT), play the organ professionally, love the outdoors, animals, and anything to do with exercising. Now I can't do most of those things for long periods, but have adapted and need someone who can spend quiet evenings cuddling, talking, and communicating together, but wants to go places, do things, and travel (with some limitations). Bottom line, I'm looking for real love from a real person, but I'm not afraid to open myself to any relationship because I might get hurt. I've been there enough and am mature enough to handle those things. Age is not a factor, but prefer younger person since I'm used to being with younger people when living in Las Vegas for so long, but up to my age is okay as well. A monogamous relationship is a must, with interest in trying anything within that limitation. Sex is always on my mind, but some meds may slow it down a little. But sex follows development of a one-to-one relationship and is part of that relationship, not the main focus or it won't last.
My Ideal Person:
I'm looking for a person who knows themselves well enough to be able to stand on their own, yet desires the same thing that I do, a one-on-one, serious relationship, comfortable enough and not afraid to hold hands or each other in front of family and friends. Someone that is comfortable with a disabled person who can walk, but not afraid to be seen with a handicap person in a wheelchair sometimes. I guess that's enough.
Not much into the bar scene, but occasionally is okay; No drug habit please, (too close to home.) Anything beyond that--as well as an alcohol addiction--is a quick deal breaker.
Let's get together after all that and spend some time getting to know each other; if we want the same thing, then who knows.
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