I've never had a sexual encounter with another guy, but it's just about all I can think about most days. I really want to kiss, hold, caress, stroke, taste, and enjoy another man.
Since I'm a newby, it's really important that I feel safe with you - I don't want pain or humiliation, I just want to feel what it's like to share some time together. That said, I'm not looking for a soulmate, just a mate (in the Australian sense and the biological). It'd be nice to just kiss and caress for a while before moving on to other pursuits - lots of body contact to warm things up. All I'm looking for is a no-strings encounter (or several); no drama, no crazies.
All my best friends are straight, masculine, intelligent, and have no idea that I'm gay and always have been (at least they don't let on). I live my life as a straight-acting, masculine, intelligent, caring person and I'm attracted to exactly that type of guy. If it weren't for the internet I'm sure I would have gotten reckless a long time ago and caught something. As it is, I'm as safe as a virgin and I won't compromise my life by not staying safe.
My Ideal Person:
I've always been attracted to football/wrestler/rugby type physiques - beefy, muscular, hairy (or smooth), with strong legs and strong hands. A guy who sports a "treasure trail" (that sexy belly hair that leads right to the good stuff) can make my knees buckle. Seeing so many types of guys on here, I'm finding myself attracted to a lot more, though; especially frathouse type guys.
I'm an average guy and there's nothing wrong with the average man - we've all got our assets. Skinny, bony, or feminine guys are the only ones who don't do it for me, but they have their admirers out there so I can't feel bad for not enjoying them.
Guys my own age are great. Younger guys who fit the mold are great. Older guys who have that Patrick Warburton or Tom Selleck vibe are supergreat; but not too much older than me (15-20 years older is pushin' it to the edge; I'm not into "Daddy/Son" fantasies).
All in all, a hot guy has what it takes and doesn't need anything else. Some guys have hit the genetic jackpot and it shows (or bulges). Some guys have worked at it and improved on mother nature (more power to them). I've got a few extra pounds I could lose, but sometimes I'd just rather have the pasta. I'm fit, not ripped; but kudos to those who are.
That said, I'd like to hook up with someone who's easy on the eyes. After all, if I'm going to make out with you, it's a lot better to WANT to make out with you. I'm not classically handsome and I know not everyone can be, but I'm good looking and am attracted to other good looking guys. And good looking can be rugged and scruffy to chisled and god-like, there's a wide range to choose from. I'll send a face pic if asked, but I'll expect one in return just to ensure the chemistry's there. Thanks for droppin' by.
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