My Ideal Person:
I really only want a relationship with a man at least 55..60-65 would be even sexier. If you were a little heavy it'd be a plus for me.
Love to start out as friends and hopefully just find it natural to get closer & closer, and if not, that's ok too.
Fishing, hiking, camping or just going for nice drives while exploring would all be nice.
I'm naturally submissive but that doesn't mean I want to be a slave or get tied up and I'm not looking for a master so much as a loving, gentle man who'd like to have a friendship where he's just more naturally the "leader" or "alpha" and enjoys the fact that I like it that way.
I'd love to feel at ease sitting on a couch with him, watching a movie or playing video games\etc...I'd like to learn to make his drinks correctly, massage his shoulders just right and 100 other little things that please him.
I don't want a 1-night boning nor do I want to jump around to several different lovers. I also don't need or want a commitment for life, a ring or flowers. A friend with benefits is just fine as long as he's(you've) become a really close "best" friend. This doesn't have to take forever to get to this best-friend stage but if you're in a rush to get laid, you should look elsewhere.
Fantasies of mine tend to feature things like this...Passionate sexy nights in a darkened bedroom or a moonlit tent.... kissing & licking wine from each other's lips..