I've recently moved back to IA...meeting gay/bi men here has been difficult, if not impossible so far. So, some new friends would be great..a friend with 'benefits' would be perfect. If that led further, great too.
Like I said, 'this shouldn't be all that difficult' Someone in a 50 or 100 mile radius would be fine. Further for the right man...
You should be clean, honest, DD free (HIV neg as I am) and no BS please. Just be yourself. Out of town is fine, as I'm willing to host or meet.
A drink, lunch?...I really am a great friend, ask anybody I know...
My Ideal Person:
aaah.... the ideal mate, I'm just looking for someone to participate in the normal responsibilities of a friendship...and we'll take it from there. 1... take care of yourself 2... take care of me, I don't have to be "first", just include me 3... just be honest 4... communicate!...don't shut me out 5... if we "fall down"...help me help us get up.
I'm the guy.... who calls you beautiful instead of hot - who calls you back when you hang up on me- who will stay awake just to watch you sleep.
I'm the guy who kisses your forehead -who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats - who holds your hand in front of his friends.
I'm the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you. I'm the one who turns to his friends and says, "...that's him."
However, I'll never make any man a priority in my life that views me as an option in his
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